As you may know, I recently served as a judge for another local competition. I thought it might be helpful to leverage what I learned from the other judges during that experience and share some thoughts with you about being your best during the interview.
- Leave your nerves in the hallway.
I noticed that, for nearly every candidate, it took them 2-3 minutes or more for their nerves to settle once they entered the room. As a result, they weren’t able to fully engage with us as judges for a significant amount of their time with us.
So, prepare physically: take deep breaths, relax your neck and shoulders, shake out your arms and legs. Prepare mentally: trust your interview preparation. Remember that the judges are on your side and very much want you to succeed. Engage them as friends and allies. - Read.
Questions can cover many topics. Some judges focus on current events, others care more about local issues and what your year of service may look like. Be aware enough of what is going on in the world that you can hold an informed opinion. Take some time every day to read about the world around you — the more, the better. For example, know something about the platforms of the presidential candidates, about immigration, global warming, healthcare, socialism, coronavirus. You don’t have to be an expert to be aware of major news stories. - Be passionate about something.
As judges, we would note when a candidate moved past basic answers to a subject they especially cared about: their faces would light up and there was a new energy in their speech. What are you passionate about? Ideally, there is something in your social impact initiative that lights a fire in you. Perhaps it’s something more relational, having to do with family or areas of personal growth. Identify that area of passion so you can communicate it effectively and vibrantly.
Side note: sometimes tears come. The judges will empathize with you. Just don’t let it derail you so that it becomes difficult to refocus and continue. - Don’t brag.
It’s disconcerting to hear a judge describe a candidate as arrogant. Since this has happened 2-3 times in my experience, it warrants a paragraph of its own.
We want you to be confident and poised; these are commendable traits. It’s been said “arrogance requires advertising; confidence speaks for itself.” Arrogant people view themselves as superior; confident people believe in themselves, their talents and abilities — they don’t compare themselves to anyone. Keep your focus on the success of others (your social impact, your community, the Miss East Cascades and Miss America organizations) and how you can enable that success through your passionate support. - Grasp the details.
As much as possible, gain expertise in your social impact area. Generalities and cliches will work against you. And have a clear course of action: go beyond saying you will speak in schools and propose some measurable steps you can take to advance your cause. If you have examples of ways you’ve already demonstrated involvement, so much the better.
That’s it! I’ve been getting good reports on the progress you’re making in your interviews. Be mindful of these five points and watch your comfort and confidence grow. You’re learning a skill that will benefit you for the rest of your life!